Vampire sex, two women boxing, exhibitionism, engaging a job interviewer, bondage, being examined by a doctor, group sex, paying a prostitute, having sex with Madonna… You name it, some human has probably fantasized about it over the course of our existence on Earth, whether the person, place, thing, or activity is sexual or not.
The human mind has an uncanny ability to create all sorts of fantasy scenarios, inspired by real events, wild wonderings, or the desire to see, do or feel more. Invited or unwanted, phantasms can trigger a whole host of feelings, many of which can have people wondering, “Am I normal?”
The general consensus amongst sexologists and sex therapists is that there is nothing wrong with fantasizing, even if it involves the most lewd, disturbing, or unfathomable acts and scenarios. The only time fantasies should be considered alarming is if (1) a person is feeling tempted to act upon a fantasy that would cause another harm, including situations that do not involve mutual consent; and (2) the fantasy is causing the person distress.
Alleviating one’s distress may be as easy as normalising the fact that having sexual fantasies is a very common experience. Being educated about the benefits of sex can not only help people to get past their issues, but be empowering as well in knowing that fantasies can:
Help lovers to get more sexually excited and more easily at that.
Enable some to reach climax.
Make for safe sex during masturbation.
Inspire your bedroom action.
Have you feeling sexier, more attractive, and more powerful, loved, and desired.
The funny thing about sexual fantasies is that their titillation for some is a torture for others. While their taboo nature can be half of appeal for some people, the fact that they can feel or seem so wrong induces guilt and perversion concerns in others. Individuals in agony about their sexual fantasies often find comfort in talking to a certified sex therapist who can better help them to understand what their fantasies are about, where they are coming from, and how they can be enjoyed or laid to rest.
Whether you get off on the same scenario time and time again, or find yourself all over the place in your erotic thoughts and daydreams, fantasies can provide just the right escape from your day or act as an adrenaline-pumping soundtrack during sex. Tame or hardcore, fantasies can bring pleasures never known and help connect you to your erotic core. Nerve wracking or deliciously naughty, that’s certainly something worth exploring.
http://www.astroglideaustralia.com/blog_-_the_glide_guide.html#Fantasy
The human mind has an uncanny ability to create all sorts of fantasy scenarios, inspired by real events, wild wonderings, or the desire to see, do or feel more. Invited or unwanted, phantasms can trigger a whole host of feelings, many of which can have people wondering, “Am I normal?”
The general consensus amongst sexologists and sex therapists is that there is nothing wrong with fantasizing, even if it involves the most lewd, disturbing, or unfathomable acts and scenarios. The only time fantasies should be considered alarming is if (1) a person is feeling tempted to act upon a fantasy that would cause another harm, including situations that do not involve mutual consent; and (2) the fantasy is causing the person distress.
Alleviating one’s distress may be as easy as normalising the fact that having sexual fantasies is a very common experience. Being educated about the benefits of sex can not only help people to get past their issues, but be empowering as well in knowing that fantasies can:
Help lovers to get more sexually excited and more easily at that.
Enable some to reach climax.
Make for safe sex during masturbation.
Inspire your bedroom action.
Have you feeling sexier, more attractive, and more powerful, loved, and desired.
The funny thing about sexual fantasies is that their titillation for some is a torture for others. While their taboo nature can be half of appeal for some people, the fact that they can feel or seem so wrong induces guilt and perversion concerns in others. Individuals in agony about their sexual fantasies often find comfort in talking to a certified sex therapist who can better help them to understand what their fantasies are about, where they are coming from, and how they can be enjoyed or laid to rest.
Whether you get off on the same scenario time and time again, or find yourself all over the place in your erotic thoughts and daydreams, fantasies can provide just the right escape from your day or act as an adrenaline-pumping soundtrack during sex. Tame or hardcore, fantasies can bring pleasures never known and help connect you to your erotic core. Nerve wracking or deliciously naughty, that’s certainly something worth exploring.
http://www.astroglideaustralia.com/blog_-_the_glide_guide.html#Fantasy
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